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2026 Wedding Trends

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7 Wedding Trends for 2026 According to a Scottish Wedding Celebrant!

If you’re planning a 2026 wedding in Scotland, prepare yourself — the trends are bold, meaningful, and gloriously Scottish. As a celebrant, I get a front-row seat to it all, and I’m happy to report that 2026 is shaping up beautifully.

Here are the seven biggest trends I’m already seeing for next year.

1. Personal Vows Are Getting Properly Personal

Couples are ditching the generic lines and writing vows that sound like them — heartfelt, honest, and sometimes unintentionally hilarious.
Think: promises to always make the tea, or to stop stealing the duvet.
2026 couples want sincerity, not scripts — and it makes ceremonies unforgettable.

2. Micro Weddings With Mega Atmosphere

Small weddings aren’t going anywhere.
In fact, 2026 will see more couples choosing intimate gatherings in their favourite corners of Scotland — forests, lochsides, hilltops, and maybe even Granny’s garden if the midges behave.
Fewer guests = more connection, more personality, and more time to enjoy the day rather than sprint through it.

3. Celebrant-Led Ceremonies Front and Centre

Good news for me (MM The Celebrant): couples want ceremonies that feel personal, inclusive, and original.
Celebrant-led weddings give you the freedom to:

  • Marry anywhere with landowner permission
  • Include personal stories
  • Blend traditions or create brand-new ones

2026 is all about meaningful moments rather than “insert-name-here” ceremonies.

4. “Anti-Stress” Wedding Planning

This might be my favourite trend.
Couples are simplifying — fewer complicated timelines, more relaxed structures.
Think: flexible ceremony start times, less rigid formalities, and focusing on what actually matters: the two of you promising a lifetime together.
(Your aunt will recover if the seating plan isn’t perfectly symmetrical.)

5. Bold Scottish Elements

Tartan will always be timeless — but in 2026 it’s getting creative.

Expect to see:

  • Mixed-pattern tartans
  • Tartan ribbon bouquets
  • Modern tartan suits (even pink and sage versions!)
  • Celtic readings and Scottish folklore woven into the ceremony

It’s Scottish tradition, just… with extra flair.

6. Sustainable Everything

2026 couples care deeply about the planet — and it’s showing.

Eco-friendly choices include:

  • Wildflower confetti
  • Locally sourced florals
  • Reusable décor
  • Pre-loved or re-designed wedding outfits

And of course, outdoor ceremonies in Scotland means the scenery does most of the decorating for free.

7. Dogs, Dogs, and More Dogs

Scotland has officially embraced the “dog of honour.”
In 2026, we’ll see more pups trotting down aisles with bow ties, flower collars, or incredibly serious expressions as they guard the rings.
And yes — I wholeheartedly support all canine involvement.
(Mud and slobber are temporary. Wedding memories are forever.)

Final Thoughts

2026 weddings in Scotland will be personal, relaxed, meaningful, and full of character — much like the couples themselves. Whether you’re planning a tiny ceremony on a clifftop or a big celebration in a barn, the trends all point to one thing:

Do it your way — and enjoy every moment of it.

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7 Things NOT to Do at a Wedding (Unless You Want to Be Uninvited from Future Ones)

Ah, weddings. A magical day filled with love, joy, and at least one tipsy uncle embarrassing himself on the dance floor. But while the happy couple is basking in their big moment, there are some things you, as a guest (or even part of the wedding party), absolutely should NOT do. Unless, of course, your goal is to become the person everyone whispers about for years to come.

Here are seven things you should definitely avoid doing at a wedding:

1. Don’t Wear White (Or Anything That Screams, ‘Look at Me!’)

It’s the couple’s day, not your personal runway show. Leave the white, ivory, or anything remotely bridal-looking in your wardrobe where it belongs. Also, avoid anything so flashy that it could double as a disco ball. If guests need sunglasses to look at you, you’ve gone too far.

2. Don’t Propose to Your Partner

Yes, weddings are romantic, but hijacking someone else’s big day to pop the question is a major no-no. Unless you’ve explicitly cleared it with the couple, keep that ring in your pocket. This is their moment—yours can wait.

3. Don’t Get Sloppily Drunk

A few drinks? Sure! Slurring your words and challenging the groom to a dance-off? Not so much. No one wants to see you hugging the cake table for support. Pace yourself, hydrate, and remember that if you wouldn’t do it in front of your gran, maybe don’t do it at a wedding.

4. Don’t Complain About the Food

Maybe you’re not a fan of the fish. Maybe the cake is a little dry. Maybe the vegan option tastes like cardboard. But you know what tastes worse? Rudeness. Smile, nod, and pretend you’re on an episode of a cooking show where the judges only say nice things.

5. Don’t Bring a Plus-One Who Wasn’t Invited

Weddings are carefully planned, from seating arrangements to catering numbers. Turning up with a “surprise” plus-one is like showing up at a dinner party with a stray dog—sure, it might be cute, but it’s also a logistical nightmare.

6. Don’t Hog the Photographer

Yes, professional photographers take beautiful pictures, but that doesn’t mean you should turn their time into your own personal photoshoot. Let them focus on the couple instead of spending 20 minutes capturing your “best angles.”

7. Don’t Try to Be the Star of the Show

Whether it’s an over-the-top speech, an unsolicited performance, or an impromptu wardrobe malfunction on the dance floor, weddings are not your talent showcase. Keep it classy, enjoy the event, and let the couple shine.

Final Thoughts

Weddings are about celebrating love, not testing social boundaries. So, be the guest everyone wants to invite again—dress appropriately, keep the drinks in check, and, for the love of all things good, let the couple have their moment.

Oh, and if you do break any of these rules… at least make sure someone gets it on video. For, you know, educational purposes.

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Why Wear Tartan?

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7 Reasons Why You Should Wear Tartan to a Wedding

My Humorous Take on Embracing Your Inner Scotsman!

As a celebrant, I’ve seen it all at weddings—from the emotional vows to the dance-floor disasters.

But one thing that never fails to bring a smile to my face (and the faces of many guests) is when someone rocks up in tartan.

If you’re on the fence about it, here are seven slightly cheeky reasons why you should absolutely wear tartan to a wedding!

1. You’ll Be the Star of Every Photo (Sorry, Bride)
Let’s be real: tartan is like the VIP pass to the wedding photos. That bold, beautiful pattern is going to pop in every picture. In fact, you might outshine the bride! (OK, maybe don’t try that, but you will look memorable!) Plus, those “action shots” of you swishing your kilt on the dance floor? Instagram gold.

2. Built-in Air Conditioning
Planning to attend a summer wedding? While everyone else is overheating in their three-piece suits and cocktail dresses, you’ll be breezing through the day, quite literally. A kilt provides that all-important ventilation, perfect for those long ceremonies where it’s 30 degrees, but you’re still expected to sit like a saint.

3. Instant Credibility with Scotsmen
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that wearing tartan instantly elevates your status at any wedding (especially if it’s a Scottish one). It’s like being granted honorary Scotsman or Scotswoman status. You don’t even need to speak Gaelic. Just grab a whisky, nod seriously, and throw out the occasional “Aye”—you’ll be the crowd favorite in no time.

4. Dance Moves Look 10x Better in a Kilt
Whether you’re doing the ceilidh or just your own brand of “freeform interpretive dance,” everything looks more impressive with tartan flying around. A good kilt twirl on the dance floor can make you look like a professional—even if your two left feet tell a different story.

5. The Mystery of What’s Under the Kilt
Oh, the eternal question. Is it just tradition, or are you being a brave Scotsman and going “full regalia” – commando? Whatever you decide, the mystique alone will keep people talking about your attire long after the wedding. Just be prepared for some cheeky guests who might try to find out!

6. You’ll Never Lose Track of Your Clan
At big weddings, it’s easy to lose your group, but not if you’re wearing tartan! Your family and friends will spot you across the room in your distinct pattern. Plus, it makes it super easy for the photographer to gather all the clan members for a group photo. “Tartan folks, over here!”—sorted.

7. Because Regular Pants Are Boring
Why settle for trousers when you can wear a kilt? It’s got flair, it’s got history, and it’s the only formalwear where people don’t bat an eye if you show a little leg. Let’s face it: everyone else at the wedding is wearing the same old black, grey, or navy suits. You? You’re the life of the tartan party!

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So there you are!

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Why MM The Celebrant?

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7 Reasons to Choose MM The Celebrant for your wedding!

When planning your wedding, selecting the right celebrant can transform your ceremony into a deeply meaningful moment. You want someone who’s not only professional but also heartfelt, adaptable, and fully committed to your unique love story. That’s where I come in—I’m a celebrant with a deep love for Scottish traditions and a passion for Italian culture. Here are seven reasons why I could be the perfect choice to officiate your big day.

1. Passion for Italian Culture

Though I don’t come from an Italian background, my time living in Italy has given me a profound appreciation for its rich culture. Whether it’s the warmth of Italian hospitality or the beautiful language, I bring my love for all things Italian into my work here in Scotland. I proudly wear the Clan Italia Tartan, designed by Michael Lemetti, as a symbol of my dedication to celebrating and promoting Italian heritage within Scottish culture.

2. A Celebrant Who Understands the Power of Love

Having spent years as a mother, traveler, and now a celebrant, I’ve seen love take on many forms. My experiences shape how I connect with couples, bringing depth, empathy, and a genuine desire to honor your unique relationship. Your love story is what makes your ceremony special, and I’m here to help you tell it in the most meaningful way.

3. Tailored Ceremonies Just for You

Your wedding ceremony should be a true reflection of who you are as a couple, and I’m dedicated to crafting a service that’s as unique as your love story. I’ll work closely with you to ensure that every element, from the vows to the rituals, feels personal and significant. Whether you’d like to incorporate Scottish traditions or Italian influences (or both!), I’ll ensure your ceremony is completely bespoke.

4. A Spirit of Adventure and Resilience

Just like love, life’s greatest moments often come with unexpected challenges. My passion for outdoor swimming in cold Scottish waters is a reminder of the resilience and adventure I bring to my life and my work. No matter what comes our way on your wedding day, I’ll be there to ensure everything runs smoothly with grace and flexibility.

5. Inclusivity and Respect for All Cultures

I believe that love has no boundaries, and your wedding ceremony should reflect the inclusivity and respect that all relationships deserve. Whether you’re blending cultures, embracing modern love, or honoring unique traditions, I’ll work with you to make sure your ceremony feels inclusive, authentic, and reflective of who you are as a couple.

6. A Friendly and Supportive Partner

From our first conversation to the moment you exchange vows, I’ll be by your side every step of the way. As a celebrant, I pride myself on being approachable, friendly, and fully invested in your happiness. Together, we’ll create a ceremony that’s stress-free and filled with joy, so you can focus on each other and the meaning of the day.

7. Traditional Yet Personalized Touches

While I love Scottish traditions, I also believe in creating ceremonies that feel personal and modern. From traditional elements like Scottish handfasting to Italian influences such as an olive branch exchange, I’ll help you strike the perfect balance between honoring the past and celebrating your future together.

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Why Marry in Scotland?

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The Beauty of Getting Married in Scotland: A Celebration of Love and Tradition

Few places in the world offer such a breathtaking combination of natural beauty, rich history, and timeless romance as Scotland. For couples dreaming of a wedding filled with dramatic landscapes, enchanting castles, and deep cultural roots, Scotland stands out as a perfect destination. Here’s why tying the knot in this captivating country is truly magical:

1. Majestic Landscapes

Scotland is home to some of the most awe-inspiring scenery on earth. From the rolling hills of the Highlands to the tranquil lochs and rugged coastlines, the country’s natural beauty provides a stunning backdrop for your big day. Imagine saying your vows with a backdrop of the misty mountains of Glencoe or exchanging rings on the shores of Loch Ness. The diversity of landscapes ensures that no matter what your dream wedding setting is—whether a windswept cliffside or a lush forest—Scotland has it all.

2. Romantic Castles

Scotland is dotted with magnificent castles, each offering a slice of history and a touch of fairytale romance. Whether it’s the iconic Eilean Donan Castle perched on a small island or the grand halls of Edinburgh Castle overlooking the city, these ancient fortresses provide a unique and dramatic venue. Many of them offer exclusive wedding packages, allowing couples to marry in the same halls that once hosted kings, queens, and nobility. It’s an experience that truly makes you feel like royalty on your special day.

3. Rich Traditions

Scottish weddings are steeped in beautiful traditions, many of which can add a meaningful touch to your ceremony. The ancient ritual of “handfasting,” where the couple’s hands are tied together with ribbons to symbolize their union, is just one of many cultural customs that make a Scottish wedding so special. Add a bagpiper to serenade you as you walk down the aisle, and the unmistakable sound of Scotland will fill the air, blending tradition with the joy of celebration.

4. Flexible Legal Options

Scotland is one of the few countries in the world where you can get married almost anywhere, thanks to its flexible marriage laws. You’re not limited to churches or civil venues—if you dream of a mountain-top ceremony or a quiet wedding by a loch, Scottish law allows it. This freedom means your wedding can be as intimate, adventurous, or as grand as you like. You can exchange vows under the open sky in nature’s cathedral, surrounded by the beauty of Scotland.

5. Welcoming Hospitality

Scots are known for their warmth and hospitality, making any wedding in Scotland feel deeply personal and inviting. From local vendors, wedding planners, and venues, you’ll find people who are eager to help make your day perfect. Whether it’s a small elopement or a large family affair, you’ll be met with enthusiasm, attention to detail, and a genuine love for the celebration of marriage.

6. Weather and Magic

While Scotland may have a reputation for unpredictable weather, many couples embrace the charm of a little Highland rain. In fact, rain on your wedding day is considered good luck! Plus, the ever-changing skies often give way to some of the most stunning light displays—from soft, golden sunsets to vibrant rainbows arcing over ancient castles and lochs. The misty atmosphere adds a touch of magic to the already enchanting surroundings, giving your wedding an ethereal, almost otherworldly feel.

7. Endless Photo Opportunities

For photographers, Scotland is a dream come true. Every corner of the country offers picturesque settings that will make your wedding photos extraordinary. Whether it’s an intimate moment captured on the edge of a cliff, or a playful shot under a stone archway in an old castle, the Scottish scenery will ensure your memories are beautifully preserved in every shot.

8. Honeymoon Heaven

After the wedding, Scotland’s beauty doesn’t stop. The country is the perfect honeymoon destination as well! From exploring the bustling streets of Edinburgh or Glasgow to taking a romantic trip to the Isle of Skye, Scotland has something for every couple. You can hike through ancient forests, visit whisky distilleries, or relax in a cozy cottage by a roaring fire—making your first days as newlyweds an unforgettable experience.

Conclusion

Getting married in Scotland isn’t just about the ceremony—it’s about immersing yourself in a landscape rich in history, natural beauty, and romance. Whether you’re drawn to a grand castle, a serene loch, or a windswept hilltop, Scotland offers an unforgettable wedding experience that’s truly one of a kind. For couples seeking a wedding that feels magical, personal, and deeply rooted in tradition, there’s no place quite like Scotland.

Your Scottish wedding will be more than just a day—it will be an adventure, a celebration, and a story that will be remembered for a lifetime.

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Tying the Knot?

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Legal or not?

In Scotland, tying the knot, or getting married, is a legal process governed by specific regulations.

The differences between a non-legal and legal wedding are very specific and the ceremony needs to reflect this. As a celebrant I cannot stand in front of guest and an any way ‘pretend’ a wedding is legal if it is not.

To make it legal I need to have the schedule issued by the Registrar of Scotland and the date and venue must be correct. If there are any discrepancies I would phone the Registry office of who issued the schedule and they would decide if the wedding would, or should not go ahead.

These are not decisions we can make because that is Scots law!

Here’s a summary of the key points regarding marriage in Scotland:

Legal Weddings:

  1. Age: Both parties must be at least 16 years old.
  2. Capacity: Both parties must have the mental capacity to understand the nature of the marriage.
  3. Notice of Marriage: Notice must be given to the registrar at least 29 days before the intended date of marriage.
  4. Residency: No residency requirement for marriage, but notice must be given to the registrar in the district where the marriage will take place.
  5. Documentation: Both parties must provide documentation including birth certificates, passports, and, if applicable, divorce or death certificates from previous marriages.
  6. Consent: Both parties must freely consent to the marriage.
  7. Prohibited Degrees of Relationship: Parties cannot be closely related by blood or adoption.

Marriage Certificate

A marriage certificate is issued following the ceremony, confirming the legal status of the marriage.

During the ceremony, both parties must declare that they accept each other as legally married in the presence of the celebrant and two witnesses.

If you have any specific questions about the legalities or processes related to marriage in Scotland, feel free to ask!

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