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7 Reasons to Plan Your Proposal on Valentine’s Day (and Not Be a Spontaneous Knee-Bender)

So, you’re thinking of proposing, but you can’t decide whether to wing it in the moment or go all out on Valentine’s Day? Well, as a wedding celebrant in Scotland, I’ve seen my fair share of engagements – the good, the bad, and the “Oh dear, was that meant to be romantic?”

While spontaneity is charming, here are seven reasons why planning your proposal for Valentine’s Day is a much better idea than suddenly dropping to one knee in the frozen aisle of Tesco while holding a meal deal.

1. Valentine’s Day Already Does Half the Work

It’s the one day of the year where restaurants dim the lights, scatter rose petals, and pretend every dish is “sensual” (even the mashed tatties). The atmosphere is already there – you just need to show up with a ring!

2. You’ll Actually Have a Ring

Speaking of rings… spontaneous proposals often involve an IOU or a Haribo sweetie ring in place of an actual sparkler. That’s fine when you’re ten years old in the playground, but if you’re proposing as a fully-grown adult, let’s aim for a bit more preparation.

3. No One Wants a ‘Hangry’ Proposal

Imagine this: you’re walking along a scenic loch, feeling the romance in the air… when suddenly, hunger strikes. Your partner is giving you the look (you know the one), and now you’re down on one knee while they’re just thinking about chips. Valentine’s Day proposals usually involve a meal first. You’ll both be well-fed and in the mood to celebrate properly!

4. The Photos Will Be Instagram-Ready

A well-planned proposal means you can subtly hint to a friend (or a hired photographer) to capture the moment, rather than relying on a blurry, mid-blink selfie taken in a panic. Trust me, your future self will thank you when you’re not explaining why your engagement photo has a kebab in the background.

5. No Awkward ‘Wrong Moment’ Moments

Spontaneous proposals come with risks. Don’t do it in the supermarket or when they are in the toilet!!!

AND…

What if you pop the question just as your partner is mid-sneeze? Or right after they’ve stubbed their toe and are cursing in five different languages? Planning for Valentine’s Day means choosing the perfect moment, rather than an unfortunate one.

6. It’s the One Day You Won’t Forget

Some people propose on random Tuesdays and then spend a lifetime trying to remember if it was March or April. But Valentine’s Day? Easy to remember. No forgotten engagement anniversaries, no awkward “When did we get engaged again?” questions. Simple. Effective. Foolproof.

7. You’ll Have a Lifetime of ‘I Planned This’ Bragging Rights

Nothing screams romance like being able to say, “Yes, I orchestrated this whole thing with thought, care, and a touch of magic.” Instead of, “Yeah, I just sort of… did it in the queue for the chippy.”

So, There You Have It!

While spontaneous proposals have their place, if you want to get it just right, a well-thought-out Valentine’s Day plan is your best bet. Besides, if all else fails, at least you’ll have an abundance of heart-shaped chocolate to soften the pressure!

See you next time!

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Weight Loss

Surely, if there were a safe, simple, side effect–free way to Lose Weight for good, we would know about it by now, right?

I’m not so sure.

It takes an average of 17 years before evidence from scientific research is incorporated into day-to-day clinical practice. With more than half a million scientific papers on the subject of obesity and weight loss exist in academic libraries, with a hundred new ones published every day.

Who can read all that? Who would know if a gem of evidence-based scientific research had been ignored because it couldn’t be monetised or didn’t fit with the latest dietary dogma?

So we do it instead. At my health research website NutritionFacts.org, we read all the original studies, combing through tens of thousands of papers a year to find out what the science really shows.

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1. DON’T SKIP BREAKFAST

Most randomised controlled studies found no weight-loss benefit to skipping breakfast. But how is that possible if it means skipping calories? It’s probably because . . .

2. IT’S NOT JUST WHAT WE EAT, BUT WHEN

calories consumed in the morning don’t appear to count as much as evening calories.

The difference is explained by chronobiology — how our body’s natural cycle is affected by the rhythms of the sun, moon, and seasons. It doesn’t matter when we sleep, nearly every cell continues to cycle in a 24-hour circadian rhythm. It’s part of that rhythm to burn more meal calories in the morning than at any other time. For weight loss, eat your main meal of the day at lunch, or even breakfast, rather than dinner. Best of all, try . . .

3. NEGATIVE-CALORIE PORRIDGE

Researchers at Columbia University split individuals into three breakfast groups: those eating porridge made from quick oats, the same number of calories of Frosted Flakes, or just plain water. They then measured how many calories people took in at lunch.

Not only did those who ate the porridge feel fuller, some went on to consume less at lunch — about 400 fewer calories, in fact, which is more than the porridge itself. So, in effect, the porridge provided ‘negative’ calories.

In contrast, the Frosted Flakes were so unsatiating that the cereal group ate as much at lunch as the breakfast-skipping, water-only group.

4. ACTIVATE YOUR ‘BAT’ SIGNAL

Many people know about the white fat in our belly that stores fat. But did you know you also have brown fat — brown adipose tissue (BAT) — that burns fat?

BAT is located high in our chests, in the neck and shoulder regions, and the more active it is, the thinner you tend to be.

Coffee is a weight-buster, too. Drink two cups, and over the next few hours your resting metabolic rate goes up about 10 per cent. On average, every cup of coffee may cause you to end up burning 17 extra calories. Since a cup of black coffee only has about two calories, that leaves a net deficit of 15 calories per cup.

One of the best ways to activate it is to feel a bit chilly.

You burn 164 more calories a day living at 16.5c instead of 22c. Provided you don’t eat more to compensate, this could translate into a pound of fat a year per degree.

Even turning down the thermostat from 24c to 19c has been proven to boost BAT activation and burn about 100 more calories every day: an annual equivalent to 20 days of fasting.

5. TEA AND COFFEE FOR CALORIE BURN

Simply drink a cup of tea, and within an hour you may burn up to 10 per cent more calories.

In one study, having tea three times a day raised the number of calories burned in that 24-hour period from about 2,280 to 2,360. In effect, each cup of tea swept away about 25 calories.

Researchers think it’s likely that tea activates the BAT signal, too. But it’s tea without milk, I’m afraid. Researchers found that milk ‘completely prevents the biological activity of tea’.

Coffee is a weight-buster, too. Drink two cups, and over the next few hours your resting metabolic rate goes up about 10 per cent. On average, every cup of coffee may cause you to end up burning 17 extra calories. Since a cup of black coffee only has about two calories, that leaves a net deficit of 15 calories per cup.

6. EAT A TOMATO BEFORE EVERY MEAL

WANT a weight-reducing vegetable with anti-inflammatory properties thrown in? The humble tomato ticks both boxes.

If you give people about a quarter of a cup of tomato paste a day, you get an improvement in artery function within 15 days — an effect attributed to both anti-inflammatory and antioxidant effects.

Tomatoes are so anti-inflammatory that tomato extracts have been investigated as a potential replacement for aspirin as a blood thinner.

Meanwhile, women asked to eat a large ripe tomato before lunch every day for a month dropped two pounds, with improvements in blood sugar, cholesterol and triglycerides (a type of fat lipid found in your blood). A tomato is 95 per cent water, so you’re effectively filling up a fist-sized portion of your stomach with only about 15 calories right before a meal.

7. GO NUTS

Nuts are high in calories, but are also one of the few foods that may add years to your life.

Not only might they slow the ageing process itself, but an ounce a day (roughly a handful) may also reduce the risk of dying from heart disease, stroke, cancer, respiratory disease, diabetes and infections — more than half of our top ten killers.

Even better, eaten in moderation, those calories don’t seem to matter.

Nuts appear to be so satiating that if you give people a mid-morning snack of almonds, not only do they subsequently eat less at lunch, they eat less at dinner, too, offsetting the extra almond calories. This explains how you can make 30,000 calories ‘vanish’ into thin air.

People in a months-long trial who added servings of almonds, pistachios, hazelnuts or walnuts to their daily diets — totalling 30,000 calories in total — didn’t gain a single pound on average.

8. SPICE IT UP WITH BLACK CUMIN

Black cumin — also known as nigella sativa but no relation to ordinary cumin, oddly — is a common spice in Indian and Middle Eastern cuisines, highly prized for its purported medicinal benefits. Only in the past 50 years or so has it been put to the scientific test, though, culminating in more than 1,000 published medical papers.

Some of the results are extraordinary. One study found that menopausal women who tried a gram a day (less than a quarter of a teaspoon) of black cumin powder reduced their bad cholesterol by 27 per cent within two months — the sort of results you’d expect with statins.

It’s equally astonishing for weight loss. A recent analysis of controlled trials found a quarter of a teaspoon every day reduces your BMI within a couple of months.

If it’s truly so beneficial to so many facets of health, why don’t we hear more about it? Why wasn’t I taught about it in medical school? Maybe because there’s little profit motive. The daily dose of black cumin used in most of these studies would cost about 2p. Put some in your pepper grinder with the peppercorns.

9. BOOST YOUR FAT CONTROLLER

Every cell in our body is like a little rechargeable battery; charged up with food or sunlight and then drained back down as the cell does its work.

What happens if the cell is running on empty and it’s not re-fuelled with food? It starts taking from the fat stores on your body.

But to do that requires a sensor to flip the switch in our body from storing fat to burning fat, and that’s the job of an enzyme called adenosine monophosphate-activated protein kinase (AMPK), sometimes nicknamed the fat controller. By boosting the activity of AMPK, our bodies burn more fat.

One way to do it is to eat vinegar. During a three-month trial, a group taking one daily tablespoon of vinegar steadily lost about 1lb a month, while a group taking two daily tablespoons were down a total of about 5lb. It might not sound like a lot, but that weight loss was achieved without removing anything from their diet.

The vinegar groups lost about an inch off their waistlines, suggesting they were burning abdominal fat.

Never drink it straight, though! It can cause intractable hiccups and burn your oesophagus. Toss your salad in it instead.

10. BOIL POTATOES

In a landmark study in which dozens of foods were put to the test, the most filling was the boiled potato. No other food even came close. Eating boiled potatoes as a side dish fills you up so much, it cuts as much as 200 calories of intake off a meal.

11. EVERYDAY ACTIVITY BEATS EXERCISE REGIMES

Exercise is good for you, but not for weight loss.

A moderately obese person doing moderate-intensity physical activity, such as biking or brisk walking, would burn off about 350 calories an hour.

Yet we consume most processed drinks and snacks at a rate of about 70 calories a minute, so it takes five minutes of snacking for someone to wipe out a whole hour of exercise. We’d need to jog a quarter of a mile for every single bite of a Snickers bar.

Far better to concentrate your weight-loss energy on getting enough NEAT in — that’s NonExercise Activity Thermogenesis, or the heat given off by our regular activities such as standing, moving and fidgeting.

NEAT typically burns off at least five times more calories a day than an average exercise programme. It’s why some people can eat and eat and not put on weight. They just get up and move more in daily life.

If you don’t fidget, you need to work on it. NEAT means taking the stairs instead of the escalator. It means singing, laughing, cleaning and gardening — any activity that creates muscular contractions. Cooking dinner, for example, burns five to ten times more calories than sitting in the living room watching TV.

12. EMBRACE THE SCALES

Forget all those high-tech wearable trackers, the best device for monitoring calorie intake and losing weight remains the humble bathroom scales.

Findings from more than a dozen studies have consistently shown regular self-weighing to be associated with successful weight loss, and one study found that twice daily — on waking and again right before bed — appeared superior to once a day (about 6lb versus 2lb of weight loss over 12 weeks).

P.S. SORRY, SEX DOESN’T COUNT

It’s a widely-held belief that a bout of sexual activity burns a few hundred calories. So you may think, hey, I could get a side of chips with that!

But if you hook people up (literally and figuratively) and measure their oxygen consumption during the act, having sex only turns out to be the metabolic equivalent of bowling.

For more info and thanks to Daily Mail!

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