7 Reasons to Plan Your Proposal on Valentine’s Day (and Not Be a Spontaneous Knee-Bender)

So, you’re thinking of proposing, but you can’t decide whether to wing it in the moment or go all out on Valentine’s Day? Well, as a wedding celebrant in Scotland, I’ve seen my fair share of engagements – the good, the bad, and the “Oh dear, was that meant to be romantic?”

While spontaneity is charming, here are seven reasons why planning your proposal for Valentine’s Day is a much better idea than suddenly dropping to one knee in the frozen aisle of Tesco while holding a meal deal.

1. Valentine’s Day Already Does Half the Work

It’s the one day of the year where restaurants dim the lights, scatter rose petals, and pretend every dish is “sensual” (even the mashed tatties). The atmosphere is already there – you just need to show up with a ring!

2. You’ll Actually Have a Ring

Speaking of rings… spontaneous proposals often involve an IOU or a Haribo sweetie ring in place of an actual sparkler. That’s fine when you’re ten years old in the playground, but if you’re proposing as a fully-grown adult, let’s aim for a bit more preparation.

3. No One Wants a ‘Hangry’ Proposal

Imagine this: you’re walking along a scenic loch, feeling the romance in the air… when suddenly, hunger strikes. Your partner is giving you the look (you know the one), and now you’re down on one knee while they’re just thinking about chips. Valentine’s Day proposals usually involve a meal first. You’ll both be well-fed and in the mood to celebrate properly!

4. The Photos Will Be Instagram-Ready

A well-planned proposal means you can subtly hint to a friend (or a hired photographer) to capture the moment, rather than relying on a blurry, mid-blink selfie taken in a panic. Trust me, your future self will thank you when you’re not explaining why your engagement photo has a kebab in the background.

5. No Awkward ‘Wrong Moment’ Moments

Spontaneous proposals come with risks. Don’t do it in the supermarket or when they are in the toilet!!!

AND…

What if you pop the question just as your partner is mid-sneeze? Or right after they’ve stubbed their toe and are cursing in five different languages? Planning for Valentine’s Day means choosing the perfect moment, rather than an unfortunate one.

6. It’s the One Day You Won’t Forget

Some people propose on random Tuesdays and then spend a lifetime trying to remember if it was March or April. But Valentine’s Day? Easy to remember. No forgotten engagement anniversaries, no awkward “When did we get engaged again?” questions. Simple. Effective. Foolproof.

7. You’ll Have a Lifetime of ‘I Planned This’ Bragging Rights

Nothing screams romance like being able to say, “Yes, I orchestrated this whole thing with thought, care, and a touch of magic.” Instead of, “Yeah, I just sort of… did it in the queue for the chippy.”

So, There You Have It!

While spontaneous proposals have their place, if you want to get it just right, a well-thought-out Valentine’s Day plan is your best bet. Besides, if all else fails, at least you’ll have an abundance of heart-shaped chocolate to soften the pressure!

See you next time!

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